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Finding Joy

Making a List – And Checking it Twice As we race down the hill to Christmas and the end of 2021, we want to take a moment to thank you for letting us partner with you. The last couple of years have brought many challenges and a...

Running on Empty

So, what happens when the Social Security trust funds run out of money? I’ve been getting several phone calls and emails from folks wanting to know if this is the end of Social Security benefits as we know it. If you have paid...

Winning the Argument

This may come as a shock. In my 30 years of working with couples and their finances, I have witnessed quite a few arguments about money. Shock number two – in my 28 years of being married, I have won very few arguments about...

Stop giving your adult kids money!

As my wife and I crest the hill approaching the days of the empty nest, we have visions of freedom, lower bills, sleeping in more often, and walking around the house in our underwear (OK, that’s more on my list). We now have one...

Who exactly is in charge here?

In our previous article we explored a few issues around estate planning. We reviewed some of the basic concepts around issues like time, beneficiaries, ownership, taxation, and the complexity that family can (and often does) bring....

I thought we did that already...

Nothing says summer like the 4th of July, swimming pools, hot dogs – and reviewing your estate plan. Ok, maybe there isn’t anything seasonal about updating your will or thinking about beneficiary designations. But like most...

New Prescription

As many of you have noticed, I reached the milestone where reading anything without glasses is apparently humorous to watch. And while it is obviously easier to just struggle to read a statement or menu than to keep up with my glasses,...

Planning for Contentment

Will we have enough? It is by far the most common question clients ask. And, maybe not surprisingly, it’s one of the most complex to answer in a way that brings lasting peace of mind. For example, one retired couple makes $60,000...

Fear of Inflation - and other things that go bump in the night

Over the last month I have had one discussion over and over again. No, it has nothing to do with finding shrimp in your Cinnamon Toast Crunch breakfast cereal, or double parking a container ship in the Suez Canal. What almost everyone...

Getting on the same page

You may not know this, but the way you and your family “do money” is very unique. In my 25 years of working with families I’ve never seen two families have the same financial culture. It makes sense really –...

Watching Paint Dry

While it may be hard to tell, I want to re-assure you that 2020 is indeed over. Also, as predicted by many, the election has come and gone. One of the amazing (exhausting) things about last year was the dizzying pace of significant...

Baby Steps

Have you started making the list yet? You know, the list of all the things you want to do once the vaccine is distributed, the masks come off and the travel restrictions are lifted. Maybe for you it’s just a simple long hug with...

Live and Learn

I have some good news – If you have been waiting for the end of 2020, you only have about 30 days to go! Maybe you are like me and think the best thing about this year will be seeing it in the rearview mirror. I think it is safe...

This May Hurt a Little

Life has always been full of unknowns. A few weeks ago, my son went for a bike ride with a friend in our neighborhood. I was on the back porch plugged into a Zoom meeting when I got a heads-up from the wife that he had crashed and a...

Surviving the Election

I don’t remember an election being one of the biblical plagues, but after everything else that has happened this year, it feels like the next thing we all must survive. Since I am getting lots of questions about how the market...

Am I Missing Something?

We all know that 2020 has been full of surprises – mostly bad surprises. Like when the cat throws up in your shoe. But somehow, amid all the bad news, parts of the stock market are setting new record highs. Confused? I will...

Keeping it Together

Over the last several weeks we have been able to do face-to-face (or mask-to-mask) reviews with some of our clients. It has been encouraging to be able to do more than just talk on the phone. One of the questions I have been getting...

Half Time

My oldest daughter told me that when she was younger, she always thought it would be cool to live during a volatile or important time in history. A couple of days ago she let me know that the reality was not as cool as she imagined. We...

Changing the Rules

On March 11, the Oklahoma City Thunder was scheduled to play the Denver Nuggets. That was almost 12 weeks ago. Since then so many things have changed. And as the world figures out how to get back to business with all of the new rules...

Sorting Through the Clutter

I have a deep respect for the waste disposal workers in my neighborhood. Like many, during quarantine we have cleaned closets and garages – touching everything and finding quite a few items we no longer choose to keep. Like Marie...

Hope is Not Cancelled

March 24, 2020 Dear Valued Investor: The world continues its battle to contain the COVID-19 pandemic, which now has likely impacted, either directly or indirectly, nearly every person on Earth. This is far more than just a health...

Dear Valued Investor - February 28, 2020

February 28, 2020 Dear Valued Investor: “The stock market takes an escalator up, and an elevator down,” is a classic Wall Street saying. The last week has sure felt like taking an express elevator down, as the end of...

Cooperation or Competition?

“Competition has been shown to be useful up to a certain point and no further, but cooperation, which is the thing we must strive for today, begins where competition leaves off”. -- Franklin D. Roosevelt When you think...

Aaaaand ACTION!

Many times, we face a new year with blank curiosity. No real expectations of what may come, much like sitting down to watch a new movie or begin streaming (binging) a new series on cable. That is not how we come to the opening scene...

What's In a Name?

Beginning January 1, 2020, we will begin to brand our practice under the new DBA (doing business as) name of Values First Planning. As you may have noticed, we already use that name for our website. This name change exemplifies what we...

A Season of Abundance

As a kid, I LOVED Thanksgiving. It was the best meal of the year by far. I was that boy who could never seem to get full. Thanksgiving was one of the few opportunities I could keep going back for more without someone stepping in and...

Finding Freedom

It is always nice to be able to say YES. YES to dinner invitations. YES to charities. YES to your grandkids. YES to home repairs. YES to vacations. However, the list of things we could do, must do, want to do, and wish we could do is...

Surviving the Media

Shrill, hyperbolic, partisan, non-stop, and exhausting: No, I’m not describing our last family reunion, I’m talking about the Media – you know, the never ending barrage of news and opinion that has the potential to...

The Power of the Compounded Life

If you have spent any time around money, you have likely heard about the power of compound interest. Albert Einstein called compound interest “the greatest mathematical discovery of all time”. The reason it garners so much...

The Unexpected Benefits of Scarcity

I enjoy a season of plenty as much as the next person. You know those times of life when we have enough resources to accomplish what we need and to enjoy what we want can really be the best. But what do we do with the stories from our...

Credit and Credibility

I started working for a “real employer” when I was in high-school. I spent my summers and a few nights a week working at an audio/video store in the mall. It was an almost surreal experience, getting a regular paycheck at...

Planning in the Storm

Life has its moments. We typically move along at decent pace as we accomplish our plans, check off our projects, and move to the next destination. But sometimes, things go sideways – or even backwards. Since it is now May –...

Arbor Day

My family just moved. We touched 15 years of memories, packed some and threw others away. If you are anything like me, events like these cause us to reflect how much the kids have grown, how time has passed, and what has or has not...

The Value of Neighborhood

According to Mr. Rogers, “it’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood”. Fred Rogers, beloved host of a children’s tv program and former Presbyterian minister, may be the darling of the year. There is a new...

Traveling Light

Many of our clients and friends are reaching a point in life where travel is becoming an option. They are not as consumed by schedules and commitments and have decided to go and experience things they have only seen on television or...

Back to Fundamentals

So, what can we say about 2018 as get ready to move forward towards a new year? It’s been violent – and I’m not just talking about the market. Not that you need reminding, but here are a few things I wish we would all...

Tax-Season's Greetings

Tax-Season’s Greetings! It’s that time of year again. When everyone’s mind and heart turns towards the annual Advent (like) countdown to the end of the 2018 tax year. Sure, you could get wrapped up in the normal...

Does History Repeat Itself?

Have you heard the saying, “There is nothing new under the sun”? The longer I live, the more I believe this to be true. Sure, new phones, tennis shoes, camera doorbells and robot vacuum cleaners argue differently, but the...

Caregiving: The Bread and Butter of the Sandwich Generation

While not all caregiving situations arise due to aging, most of what we see is an aging spouse or a single parent.  Just like planning for retirement or other big life events, caregiving issues need to be discussed prior to a crisis.

Permission Required

For the last year I have been writing articles about families and money. Some of these articles have dealt with the actual mechanics of how to teach the proper care and use of money. Others have been focused on the character and...

Retire Well

We all feel time ticking away. There will come a day when our next paycheck will be the last one we ever get. Retirement is coming. TV bombards us with “not so subtle” hints that we need to be saving and preparing...

Not all Taxes are Bad

I may have lost 80% of my potential readers at the title. Most of us are not ok with the amount of taxes we pay. We often feel like we have zero control over how much the government takes and when they take it. So, the idea that we...